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Mini Egg Inspired look featuring Inglot's AMC Gel Liners!

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I love eye liners. They're like a mixture of oxygen and crack: I need them to live and they're highly addictive!

Last weekend I took the train down to London for my girl Amina's wedding, whilst I was there though I took out some time to meet up with the lovely Sheenie from Just Nice Things. Of course, what should happen when two bloggers get together in central London? Shopping! I wanted to head over to Inglot for their Gel Liners, though I have to admit I'm no fan of their AMC black gel liner as it dries out too quick, becoming too thick to use.

That being said I'd read that Shrinkle, the founder of Sugarpill Cosmetics is a huge fan of their colour gel liners and uses them for her signature coloured eyebrows. That was more than enough to convice me to splash out on a load of these!
 
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I picked up: 85 - Lime Green, 87 - Teal, 76  White, 72 - Pink - 82 - Periwinkle

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I've not quite had the time to use these all individually on the my brows just yet, however I received a big box packed full of easter eggs and chocolates this week. Now I'm not some chocoholic, quite the opposite in fact, but I don't mind Mini Eggs, so whilst I was munching away on a little packet I was inspired:
 
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This look is super-easy to do, first I lined my eyes with the white, then added a line of periwinkle just above that and snuck in some lime green and pink beneath the white flick at the end of each eye. Then I dotted on some random patches using all five colours around the eyes, replicating the speckled effect found on the mini-eggs. Simples!
 
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I found it quite refreshing working with an eye liner in a colour other than black! The liners are still only a week old so the consistency is still pretty creamy and easy to worik with. I'm keeping my fingers crossed they don't dry out as quickly as the black one does.

In the meantime, I thought I'd give the pink liner a go as a blusher and lo and behold it worked! Trust me when I say this: it stays put ALL DAY. OMG!

I was also impressed by the price, at just £10 a pop I feel like I need to go back down to London and buy the entire AMC Gel Liner collection, especially the yellow!

 Halima

NEW IN // Unicorn Heeled Shoes!

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Hello hello! 

Like the new shoes?

Blogging about shoes is definitely a rarity for me, I'm just not that crazy about them to be honest. With all the make-up looks I create and the bright and bold outfits I wear, shoes tend to be more of an afterthought. When it comes to my feet, I'm typically a Primark kinda gal with the odd pair of heels from ASOS as a luxury.

But when I stumbled across these on the Internet, I just knew I'd have to break that habit and splash out. I mean, it's not every day you see a pair of shoes with unicorns for heels is it?! I was one of the lucky ones though as they sold out pretty quickly online, which is no surprise, and they arrived today. They are very unique and unusual looking shoes, but the camera loves them!

I think the main reason I keep my shoe spend down is the fact that, quite simply, I destroy them! I'm not some kind of shoe-sadist sat at home on the floor cutting them with a knife or something, I just tend to walk around quite a lot in my daily life, so whatever's on my feet wears out in quick time. On top of that Manchester is officially, or if not should be, the rainiest city in the UK so water damage isn't just a possibility, it's an inevitability. Unlike your hair or your clothes, a brolly can't protect them from the streams and lakes that form from Mancunian rainwater.

So why did I buy these then? At £115, I saw it as an investment. Sometthing to save for those really special occasions.

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 The detailing on the actual heels is divine, a 4¾ inch painted resin Unicorn that reminds me a little bit of the 'Knight' piece from a chessboard, whilst the upper part of the shoe is made from woven black canvas and covered in metallic gold stars. The toe is rounded with a hidden platform to make it a little easier to walk in. Great care has to be taken with the heels though, as the painted resin can be scraped off quite easily.

The shoes are made by none other than Irregular Choice. When I first laid eyes upon them I was convinced that they were behind these wonderful creations, and alas how right I was!

Finding them may be a little difficult at the moment, they're currently sold out on Irregular Choice's own website and pretty much everywhere else on the internet too for that matter. I got lucky and found a pair in my size on Schuh 's site, though they're also now out of stock. Just as well I followed my impulse on this instance, HUZZAH!

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I'm looking forward to breaking these babies in at home over the weekend ready to take them out on the town with me! And if worst comes to worst, at least they'll make for some classy book-ends, right?
 
 Halima

OUTFITS // The Holographic Jacket

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 I'm sure we can all agree: this jacket is out of this world!

I've been going crazy for holographic material lately, yet finding good quality pieces is no mean feat. But this jacket really is a thing of beauty. I found it on eBay, and immediately snapped it up for just £50. I already knew it'd be amazing, but when I actually received it through the post I was gobsmacked.

Perhaps my fascination with holograms stems back to my childhood, spent watching late 80s/early 90s films and cartoons with outlandish visions of the future. Hologram definitely fits in with that and I still harbour my own visions of people surfing the streets on their hover-boards, wearing fully holgraphic jumpsuits with chips implanted into their brain instead of having mobile phones and bizarre hairstyles!

Back to 2014 though, I've really admired the cut of many of the leather jackets on the high street over the past few years, despite harbouring a deep dislike for the actual leather. The cut on this is just perfect, it's exactly like that of the leather jackets I've so long admired, but in holographic form. You know when you put on an item clothing and it instantly feels like you've owned it forever? That's how it felt when I tried this on for the first time. It was love.

Fortunately enough for me, it was a beautiful sunny day when the parcel arrived through the post, judge for yourself how the bright sunshine brings out the iridescent nature of the material:

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Hello Hologram Moto Jacket - Lip ServiceLINK // Black Sheer Chiffon Dress - H&M (Last Season) // Hologram Skinny Waist Belt - ASOS (Last Season) // Silver Layered Necklace - H&M // Black Tinted Round Sunnies - TOPSHOP (S/S13) // Silver SOMEWHERE Pointed Pointed Heels  ASOSLINK

Along with the jacket, I managed to sneak in my trusty holographic belt from ASOS' 2013 range that I've absolutely worn to death, as well as a stunning pair of silver heels I first saw at London Fashion Week this year. I didn't see these on the catwalk though, I saw them on Aneela from Little Leeli and instantly fell in love with them (and her!). So for that reason I've christened them: The Aneela Heels! Stylish, silver and futuristic too. Win!

 Halima

Natasha Khan Rainbow Make Up Look

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It's certainly no secret that I fancy the pants off of Natasha Khan, the women behind the incredible band that is Bat For Lashes.

Natasha is known for being quite mysterious and spiritual, possessing an indescribable other-worldly aura about her. A quick Google Image search and you'll soon see that she appears to be quite fond of extravagant eye make up too. I couldn't really pick out a favourite, but two immediately caught my eye, one with a rainbow sprouting out of her eye and behind her neck and another where she appears to be crying glittery tears, both are beyond stunning!

Late last night whilst I was working away on the laptop, my iPod's shuffle function threw up one of her tunes. I haven't really listened to them much lately, but I was instantly back in to the rhythym. I absolutely loved Bat For Lashes back in the day, and it kinda took me back, so naturally I've had them on repeat all day today! And that's what inspired me to create this take on one of her more famous looks:

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*FACE*

NARS Tinted Moisturiser in St Moritz 
MAC Prep + Prime Transparent Finishing Powder

*LIPS*

Stila Stay All Day Liquid Lipstick in Beso

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*RAINBOW EYES* 

Inglot Gel Liner in 85, 87, 76 & 72
Sleek Ultra Matte Brights Palette 

*REST OF THE EYES*

TOPSHOP Matte eyes in Porcelain
Bourjois Little Round Pot Eyeshadow in Blanc
Illamasqua Precision Gel Liner in Infinity 
L'Oreal Miss Manga Mascara in Black

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After re-creating the look, I asked the OH: Am I Natasha Khan yet? His reply: Kinda. 

That's good enough for me :)

If you're looking for a new music fix, check out this tune below, it's pretty special! 

 
 Halima

OUTFITS // Basking in Monochrome

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What a weekend it's been! My little corner of the world has been bathed in glorious sunshine over the past two days, and given that my corner is in Manchester, that's almost miraculous! I'm always looking southwards to London in envy, as they seem to get the better of the weather. This time though, I made the most of it!

As sunshine, warmth and a lack of precipitation is such a rarity here, I often find myself underprepared for such an event. I put together this monochrome outfit yesterday with a bright clutch providing the colour.

I purchased this gorgeous nautical-looking dress with maritime stripes on the bodice and a chiffon skirt that splits. I adore chiffon and I adore splits, so naturally I freaking love this dress! It's the perfect summer garment as that combination allows for a blissful cool breeze around the legs which cools me down on those stiflingly hot days (yes, they do happen here!). The only issue I had with the dress was the length of the skirt, so I used my new-found sewing skills to take the hem up an inch. Win for me!

I threw on this stunning lace mac to add to the monochromatic theme, though it's more of a Parka - one of my essentials for the summer. Not to labour the point to much, but even the most beautiful summer's day can turn in to a monsoon-esque downpour within seconds - so just imagine me strutting my stuff in such a downpour with my waterproof lace mac! First it's like 'WTF?!', but then it's like 'Wow, that's awesome.'

For that reason, I foresee this becoming a staple of my summer.

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Black and White Striped Split Chiffon Dress - H&M Divided // *White Premium Lace MAC - WAREHOUSE // *Blue Saffiano Leather Pouch - DKNY // Pearl Carousel Necklace - TOPSHOP // Iridescent Bracelets - River Island // Blue Mini Carre Glass Ring - Pylones // Somewhere Pointed Silver Shoes - ASOS// Round Lilac Tinted Sunglasses - eBay

The DKNY clutch is pretty awesome, and really adds an extra dimension to the monochrome outfit, a bit like the classic black and white photo photoshopped to show a pair of scarlet red lips. It's not the most practical bag in the world, but then it's a clutch, it's just there for eye-candy purposes. A job it does pretty well I think.

If any of yous are interested in purchasing this clutch, check out the DKNY range at Harvey Nichols LINK!

What do you reckon?

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 Halima

OUTFITS: Watercolour

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HIYA!

Remember me? I've been gone for three whole weeks! Doesn't sound like much, but in the fast-moving blogging world it's an age. I've been having some technical difficulties of late, my hard drive thought it'd be a good idea to go in to meltdown so I almost lost all of my photos. Luckily enough I managed to get it fixed up without any losses. Oh and I quit my job!

Enough of that though, because just a few short weeks ago I purchased this gorgeous floral smudge dress by 'Oh My Love'. If you're a regular reader you'll be well aware of my love-hate relationship with floral prints. It's nothing personal, but year after year without exception we are subjected to excessive amounts of floral prints on the high street and the internet too. So whilst you can get some pretty special ones, they are a bit like needles in the proverbial haystack. If done right, a floral print dress can look very elegant and pretty. This one from 'Oh My Love' certainly does that.

I think what sets this apart from the crowd is the silky texture combined with the watercolour effect print, meaning it doesn't look like your average floral, in fact from a distance it doesn't even look floral at all!

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Castaway Floral Smudge Printed Dress - Oh My Love // Stanley Buckled Pointed Heels - ASOS // Emerald Jewel Necklace (worn as a headband) - Personal Palace   
 
Just a quick note on these Asos shoes - they are surprisingly comfortable! I don't often get along with heels whatsoever and frequently look on at those who can wear them on a night out with a unique mixture of envy and admiration. The ankle strap buckles my feet into the shoe and makes these really comfy to walk in, no danger of my feet popping out of these!

Halima

MAKEUP LOOKS // Peacock Eyes and Yellow Lips with Makeup Revolution!

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'iya!

It must be a few months ago now when I first heard about Makeup Revolution, and as soon as I did I went on a bit of a mass haulage - £20 for two palettes, eight lipsticks and eyeshadows. Not bad eh?!

Out of pure excitement I raced to put up a haul post featuring just one, rather hastily assembled look. Since then I've been testing these out to the max so thought I should really give an update! It's all very well and good doing an excitable haul post after just a day, but will I still like them after a couple of months, or will the novelty factor just wear off?

The look I've featured today is the typical 'Peacock' eye look, with some bright yellow lipstick thrown in for good measure!

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'Scandalous Felony' 

 This is a bright yellow, kinda reminds me of the taxis you see in NYC!

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Upon swatching, I realised Scandalous Felony was quite sheer, very glossy. 

I must admit that whilst I was excited at the range of colours, I was a bit worried that Makeup Revolution would end up being the make-up version of 'American Apparel' - plenty of colours all neatly arranged that look good in the shop but are either just dull or uninspiring when you take it home.
 
As it turns out though, the lipstick surprisingly suited me and certainly isn't dull! Upon applying it to the lips it doesn't take very well at all, looking incredibly sheer. To make it work I painted the lipstick on with a lip brush, just apply it in gentle strokes and it will saturate the lips quickly. Get in!
 
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For the peacock eyes, I used the'Matte Brights' palette. 

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Colour explosion right there! 

In the pan, these colours look intense and explosive - the only comparison I can think of is when you see freshly ground spices at a market somewhere in India or Turkey - however upon application they're quite soft, just adding a nice wash to the eyelids. That's not what I was looking for though, I wanted full-on colour and the only way to achieve that was to pack it on with the right brush.

I was pleasantly surprised at how well the yellow worked on my inner corner! When it comes to that area, I find it's best not to apply primer to it. That way you can pack on the shadow to your heart's content!
 
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What do you reckon?

Going a bit off-topic here, I find it funny that when I first started up the blog I was so 'safe' with my make up and my looks. I was reluctant to experiment with brighter and bolder colours and lipsticks for fear it wouldn't suit my Asian skintone. Fast forward a couple of years and it clicked that skin tone is irrelevant, it's your attitude towards yourself that matters. If you want it, go get it, girl! Now, it's got to the point where folks assume I'm going to a funeral or something if I wear 'neutral' makeup, ha!

Halima

OUTFITS // Tropical Print Pom Pom Shorts and Male Entitlement

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*Macy Tropical Print Pom Pom Shorts - Lily Lulu Fashion // Silk Emerald Button Tee - Topshop // Long Black Split Kimono - H&M Divided // Long White & Teal Feather Earring - Dusty Diamonds // Silver SOMEWHERE Pointed Heels - ASOS // Transparent Retro Pink Mirrored Round Sunglasses - NEW LOOK

I'm definitely not a shorts kinda girl. Weirdly, I tend to wear shorts in winter and it's usually the kind that is made with velvet fabric aimed at keeping me warm. But there's a first time for everything right? And with it being blazing hot in Manchester today, there's no time like the present!

What makes these so easy to wear is the print, how can anyone resist tropical prints? Just sit back, close your eyes, sip on an ice cold lilt (or rubicon) and imagine you're in the Caribbean! And I actually like the cut of the shorts too, they're not unbearably short so your arse doesn't hang out the back of them. Win!

I tucked my emerald silk top, which funnily enough I used to wear to work quite often, into the shorts. The top does have a bit of a 'formal' look to it, however it's easily dressed down with a cool pair of shorts. The final touch was of course my trusty 'mono.

Wearing clothes like this though poses problems and prompts a bit of soul-searching on the part of the wearer. We went for a nice stroll in the sunshine, as you do, but I was attracting some unwanted attention as I was basking in the sunshine while t'other half went in to a shop. This older, burly, sweaty guy walked past me, winked and said: "Cor, I'd slip a cock in you."

In the heat of the moment I thought 'Who the fuck do you think you are? What makes you think you've got a chance? What makes you think I care what you think? You think I actively seek out this kind of attention?"

But a few moments later the soul-searching began and I started to wonder whether I was 'asking for it' with my choice of clothes, I started to wonder if the guy was 'only trying to give me a compliment in his own funny way' and whether I had over-reacted or actually deserved that kind of presumptuous comment. And this is what Male Entitlement does to women. I felt pretty uncomfortable in that situation, through no fault of my own, but social norms actually make me feel like I was the one in the wrong.

But really, I was stood there minding my own business, taking in some sun. I don't deserve that and neither does any other woman. I wear clothes because I like them, because they make me feel good and because they just look great. I don't wear them for anyone else's benefit and the sooner men realise that this is how most women think, the better.

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Halima

Bindis: Cultural Appropriation or Not?

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Meet my friend Adam. Whenever he comes over, he always cuddles Wilhelmina, and he never leaves without a bindi adorning his forehead. Why? For one, he is fascinated by India and Indian culture, and secondly because I slap it on before he can say no!

I know the bindi's caused a little bit of controversy lately with the whole 'Cultural Appropriation' thing emanating from a bunch of celebrities wearing them at a music festival I'd never heard of (called Coachella, which sounds like a s**t name anyway) and from being sold at Topshop and Miss Selfridge amongst others. I have to say, when I first heard of this I too, was outraged. How DARE they?! Taking parts of my culture, using it to their advantage. You can't simply pick and choose parts of my culture, you haven't tasted our struggle.

There was an uproar on my Twitter feed, people from all over the world commenting on how this was 'Cultural Appropriation' and there was me joining the mob of the oppressed rising up to strike against our oppressors, bashing them for insulting Mother India, Hinduism and using our culture as a throwaway trend.

I was really, really mad. But I stepped back from the cauldron and began to think about this. Why was I so angry? Was this really an example of Cultural Appropriation? I've seen the photos of white people wearing the Native American head dress, which is quite blatantly insulting. The ancestors of foreign invaders rubbing the noses of the natives right in it. "Hey look at me, my great-great-great-great grandad stole your land and now I'm stealing your traditions too!".

But is the wearing of the bindi on the same level as that? Really? The bindi does have a deep religious significance to Hindus of course - representing concealed wisdom, but does the wearing of a decorative, ornamental version of it by uninformed non-hindu people pose a threat to or insult Hindus or Hinduism, the religion of 1.1 billion people? I'm not so sure about that.

 I'm actually growing quite concerned that the quest to seek out such 'Cultural Appropriation' and vociferously shout it down is in danger of becoming too judgemental. How do you know that the person you are bashing from behind your screen has no appreciation of the culture they've borrowed from? Howcould you possibly know? Did you ask? What did they say? 

Just by way of example, there's a photo of my white other half standing by himself wearing traditional Nepalese dress with a tikka on his forehead. If I were to post that in isolation (and if he were famous), we'd both get berated. But the fact is, it was taken at his friend's wedding who asked him to wear the clothes, and an elderly Brahmin priest came up and offered the tikka. What's he supposed to do? Say: "No I'm sorry, that'll offend you and your entire culture."

 We are seeing genuinely harmless things attract huge volumes of scorn, I mean who really cares if a semi-talented singer gets a Chinese tattoo, wears a sari or a bindi when there are some really damaging acts of cultural appropriation out there. Why the need to focus on Vanessa Hudgens instead of Israel for example, a country that in an attempt to wipe out Palestinian culture and history has taken to adopting traditional Palestinian cuisine as its own. THAT is cultural appropriation, and that is worthy of anger and scorn.

And going back to Bindis, it's ironic that a significant number of people complaining, myself included at one point, are actually Muslim and therefore lay no claim to the cultural significance of a bindi anyway. When you go to a Muslim wedding and you see the bride wearing a sari, a bindi and traditional hindu-styled jewellery, do you run up to the bride and tear it all off in protest at this cultural appropriation? Bollocks.

I see Asians complain with their left hand about the bindi yet in their right hand they listen to hip hop and immerse themselves in Black culture. Certainly nothing wrong with that from my point of view, but by your own definition, are you not belittling the everyday struggles of the Black community by appropriating their culture?

In my opinion, cultural appropriation is most definitely a thing, but if you want to get angry about it, you best not be doing it yourself to someone else's culture and you'd better be directing your anger at actual appropriation, instead of using it as a way of channelling your frustration that semi-talented people can end up so mega-rich.

So yeah, whenever my friends are over, it's now become a tradition that you don't leave my gaff without a bindi on. LaaLaa Monroe can vouch for this, ha!
Halima

BURLESQUE // FACE Lace by Phyllis Cohen & IMATS!

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Face Lace have very quickly propelled themselves to Number One in my list of favourite brands from quite literally nowhere. Ok, that's a bit of lie - I hate lists. But if I did keep a list, they'd be right at the top. It wasn't until February that I even knew they existed, I spotted their work on show as part of the Liz Black display at Freemason's House, where they collaborated and created bespoke Lobster and Ant stickers for the face, as well as doing the make-up.

The face art immediately caught my eye, as I'd been taking on a more artistic approach to make-up myself and whatFace Lacedid really struck a chord with me, nevermind that it worked perfectly with Liz Black's collection!

So who are Face Lace? Well the lady behind Face Lace is none other than Phyllis Cohen, something of a legend in the world of make-up artistry, a self-confessed face fanatic who has worked with an eclectic mix of celebs from David Bowie to Heston Blumenthal(?!), from Kelly Holmes to Chaka Khan and Pink Floyd to Tina Turner. Crazy! What fascinates me about Phyllis is she's self-taught as a make-up artist, transforming her training in the arts from the canvas to the face, and the dedication and devotion put in to making that transition.

I first featured Face Lace a couple of months back, using their Splash stickers on my face to create a Monochromatic look: LINK. Since then, I've been doing a bit more dabbling, away from the 'DIY' kits towards the ready-to-wear stickers.

The one I have on today is called*'Burlesque'. At first I thought there was a sneaky hint of peacock feathers, but upon closer inspection it seemed to more resemble the feather bustle skirts worn by burlesque dancers. No idea why it didn't click immediately, what with the name and all.

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Cats make great props. 

I teamed up the *Burlesquestickers with a shadow combo of lavender, aqua and fuchsia - all colours I'm definitely feeling at the moment. I've temporarily moved away from the increasingly popular lime green and pink combination, I just can't sit still when it comes to eyeshadows at the moment! 

IMATS

Lucky little me managed to bag myself and LaaLaa Monroe a couple of passes to IMATS, on the Friday before it all gets crazy-busy. Phyllis invited us both down for the day, most of which was spent splurging, chatting, playing around with the stickers and hugging - as you can see below!

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At the counter people had the chance to experiment with the stickers, to see what they looked and felt like on. Me and LaaLaa opted for the 'Beauty Sparks' and LaaLaa wore the metallic silver stick-on brows that were on offer.

I'd never been to IMATS before so it was quite an experience, meeting and talking to people in the make-up industry. It's a shame that so many of them aren't as well known as their talent deserves, with blogs on a seemingly never-ending rise in popularity a lot of these make-up artists are bypassed. 

Funnily enough, whilst we were waiting for the tube to the train station, we got chatting to a girl thats looking into creating a blog and the first question she asked was: do you make much money from it? Make of that what you will.

Face Lace can be purchased online through their website as well as via various department stores, LINK to stockists. Prices range from £3.95 to£29.95. 

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Halima

Futuristic Makeup // Liquid Silver Eyes and Black Inked Lips!

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I don't know about you, but whenever I see silver I can't help but associate it with the future. And when I do project in to the future (which happens pretty often!), the colours in my mind are quite cool toned and silver always features prominently. 

Many people tend to match their make up to their mood, to their hair or to their outfit, but I find that I match my make up to the music I'm listening to. My taste now is much more eclectic than it was 10 years ago and lately I've been getting familiar with the dreamy, electronic tones of synth. The better songs create mythical landscapes in the mind of the listener.


For this look, I opted for silver foil-effect eyes and whipped out a matte black liquid lipstick! 

So, meet the Future:
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(L-R) Laura MercierV.I.P Silver Foiled Eye Colour and Lime CrimeVelvetines in Black Velvet from the Clueless Witch Collection

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I picked up the Laura MercierVIP Silver Eye Shadow from Depop for a bargain-icious £2! 

I was a little skeptical about this actually, thinking it might be one of those overly subtle eyeshadows but was happily proven wrong!
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Upon swatching, it appeared to be quite intense but fortunately the colour wasn't as clunky as you might expect from a metallic silver or gold eyeshadow. That's always been a pet-hate of mine, why make such a stunning colour but ruin it with a terrible formula?

I applied this atop my Urban DecayPrimer Potion on my lids and was amazed at how it glided on so beautifully! To round off the look, I spritzed my brush with water and created the exaggerated silver liner. I have to say I was incredibly impressed, the application was so smooth that looking in the mirror it genuinely looked like I'd covered my lids in smooth silver foil. The best way to describe it? It felt like I was applying liquid silver that dried quickly and set perfectly.

Next up: 

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I'd tried (and reviewed) the Red Velvet from Lime Crime's Velvetines range last year and loved the formula and the longevity of it, so when I spotted a small Lime Crime stand at IMATS last week I had to sweep in and pick up some Black Velvet along with the rest of the Clueless Witch Collection.


Just like its red sister, Black Velvet's longevity is fantastic, particularly for a black lipstick. The swatch on my arm took a while to scrub off, but on the lips it's not quite so difficult to remove. After eating and drinking it does wear off, but in fairness I don't know of any 'unnatural' coloured lipstick that can outlast a three course meal.

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I added the cherry on top in the form of tear drop stickers running from the corner of my eyes to give a holographic tear effect. These are, of course, from Face Lace's Beauty Sparks pack which includes a variety of shapes to choose from. As you can tell, I'm rather fond of face stickers, I see them as tattoos for those who lack the commitment to penetrate the skin. For someone as fickle as me, they're perfect!

I'm not really sure whether Laura Mercier even do the foiled eye colour anymore, as I took a quick look on their website but couldn't locate it. However, you can still purchase Lime Crime's Velvetines range fromLove Makeup at £13.50 a pop!

Halima

The End of An Era?

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Well, the title may sound a little dramatic, but I think my blogging era is definitely in its final throes. I remember starting this blog way back in 2009, at the time I felt like there wasn't a great deal of products out there for darker skinned women, that almost everything out there was aimed at white women. Even the blogging world was that way too, very few Asian women I could look to for advice, reviews or tips. So I thought: 'Fuck it, I'll start my own one!'

And so DesignerSpray, as it was known back then, was born. That changed to Fashionicide though as I began to delve a little more into the world of fashion, but the blog was acting more like a journal for me. I've always felt like the blog was always for me, something I was doing for myself, for me to learn new, exciting things as I went along.

But now, I feel like I'm reaching the end, because one of the greatest things I've learnt over these past 5 years is that it's not about specific colours or tones or shades - except for foundation & concealer - it's about attitude, it's about breaking these pre-conceptions, breaking the mould. Because whether we like it or not, the beauty industry creates stereotypes in their adverts for their target markets. They portray white, black, South East Asian and Subcontinental women within a boring, dull range of 'acceptability' in order to sell more of their stuff.

It makes women feel quite limited in what they can buy and use. But it doesn't have to be that way, and that's what I've learnt through Fashionicide. If you look at the range of products available specifically for Asian skin tones, it's still as paltry as ever, if not worse. We're not a priority for the likes of L'Oreal or Rimmel, sure they do make stuff specifically for us, but do Boots or Superdrug stock them in every store? No.

For the first few months, maybe even a year, on this blog, I kept myself within that range of what cosmetics companies advertised to me as acceptable for my Asian skin. And whilst I figured out how to use foundation to maximum effect, everything else was a little boring. The watershed moment for me was something as innocuous as a scarlet red lipstick. In a moment of madness I bought it, knowing that I couldn't possibly wear it outside - I'm Asian after all, not white! I took it home, tried it on and loved it, but still I was too shy. Somehow I convinced myself to pluck up the courage and blog about it, photos included. I think that was the moment that Fashionicide was truly born.

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This was when the attitude and confidence began to develop, and from there I went from strength to strength, experimenting with all manner of lipsticks - nudes, reds, oranges, black(!), purples, blues and so on and so on. Why not? Not only lipsticks though, eyeshadows too. As time wore on, I tried out the entire colour spectrum on my lids, and most of it worked! Smokey eyes were out, bright, bold colours were in.

Another of the lessons I've learnt, and quite an important one, is that it doesn't matter too much what makeup brand you use. In the beginning I'd stick almost exclusively to the likes of MAC, Urban Decay, NARS and Benefit - the 'premium' high street brands. There's no doubting the quality of these brands, but I've found that my best looks have been created using cheaper alternatives like Make Up Revolution and Natural Collection. For me, it's not about what you apply, it's about how you apply it.

Now I'm in a place where I feel confident with my style, with the make up I use and my skill at applying it. I feel like I can wear anything I want. There are no boundaries or limitations holding me back any longer and now I'm questioning myself - what's the point of Fashionicide? I've not been updating regularly for the past 18 months, I've been busy working on an exciting project which has consumed my life this summer and I can only see it becoming more intense.

For now, Fashionicide is alive and well, and I'll still be posting sporadically, but for the time being I'll be evaluating whether or not I can draw any benefit from it. The whole purpose and meaning of the blog from its early beginnings is no longer relevant, and like an ageing Radio 1 DJ, or a long forgotten foundation hiding at the back of the cabinet, its days are numbered.

Back To The Future

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Ok, first up, let me just give you advance notice that there'll be no hoverboards or crazy time travelling scientists in this post. Sorry. :P

As my regular readers will know, I gave up the ghost on blogging a couple of months ago. For me, it was something that had served its purpose and there was nothing left for me to gain from continuing. It was my own personal journal, and I take pride in the fact you can see how I've progressed over the 5 or so years it's been running.

And the blogging world changed over those 5 years too, new bloggers came flooding in and not always with the same goals as me. I felt like I had to post more and more regularly in order to keep up, but I just couldn't find the time or desire. That was one reason for deciding to leave but the other was to do with the bloggers themselves.

I was seeing so many of them complain about the PRs, complain of how a certain company wouldn't send them samples, complain about not being invited to events, complain about other 'less deserving' bloggers being given more opportunities than them and even some complaining about seeing bloggers complain! I began to wonder where this sense of entitlement came from, where this superiority complex had came from? It disgusted me, because this isn't what blogging should be about.

Sure we are entitled to be disappointed about not receiving a sample or an invite, but to act like you're the fucking Queen and not been invited to your own tea-party? I didn't have time for that. The whole 'Blogger Politics', or 'Bloggertics' as I'm christening it, has become more complex and more pathetic during this time and it was making me feel a bit uneasy – at times it seemed like a witch hunt! SO MUCH DRAMZ. Real life can be a challenge as it is, so why invent another one for yourself?

So yeah, I was on my way out and then a couple of things happened: firstly, my web host automatically renewed my domain without telling me and secondly I received this comment on one of my posts:

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I owe a big thank you to this person, because it reminded me that what we write or say can genuinely help other people, and that was another reason for this blog's existence – to further myself, document the journey and share my experiences with those who care to read. This comment brought all of that back for me. It reminded me of another comment I received some years ago, saying that my blog is inspirational. Me? Inspirational? Wow.

Now my mind is consumed with thoughts of returning back to the blog, back to my blogging roots. Fuck the Bloggertics. Fuck the complainers. I'm a doer, and I will do what I love doing.

And currently, what I want to do is dreamy, mythical, avant-garde, retro-futuristic make up! (Bit of a mouthful there). 

And without further ado: 

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FACE

ELF Complexion Perfection Powder (dupe for the BEN NYE Bana Powder)

CHEEKS


BROWS

Soap & Glory Archery in Hot Chocolate (an awesome dupe for the highly popular Anastasia Brow Wiz pencil)

EYES

*Makeup Revolution's Give Them Nightmares palette. Used 'White Noise' all over the lid and brow bone & 'Depravity' on the crease and under eye. 
Stargazer Eye Dust in 13 on the inner corner

LIPS


Gosh, I am loving Makeup Revolution at the moment! The Depravity Lip Lacquer has quickly become a firm favourite of mine, to the point I now wear it daily. The formula is creamy, quite smooth and dries to a matte finish. After the powdery mess that was Topshop's Velvet Lips, I've been a little skeptical of high street lipsticks but Makeup Revolution have defied all makeup logic: Pricey doesn't necessarily mean better.

For the effect on the forehead and around the eyes I'm paying homage to Face Lace here, so I've used my own Iridescent cutouts and glued them to my mug with every schoolgirl/boy's favourite: PVA Glue!! I felt like a Blue Peter presenter doing this, minus the classic washing up liquid bottle! But in all seriousness, I am forever fascinated by the colour changing properties of iridescence and how it looks different in various lightings, it's so multi-dimensional!

MAKEUP LOOKS // ICE QUEEN & How to White Those Eyelashes!

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I know what you're thinking: 'Aren't Ice Queens usually white?'

Well yes. Yes they are, but as my regular readers will probably be able to guess, my response to that question is: 'Fuck the rules!'

Anyway, I've moved to a new area of Manchester lately and maybe it's just my undying loyalty to the area I used to live in talking, but it actually feels much colder in these parts. To make me feel warmer, I was watching 'The Lion, The Witch & The Wardrobe' (because that makes everyone feel warmer) and thought it'd be a great idea to try my hand at an Ice Queen look.

If you think about it, Ice Queens haven't really had a great time of it. From a young age cartoons teach us that anything ice cold (or blazing hot) is a bit evil, maybe Frozen will change that - if it doesn't annoy people from being forced upon us as a classic, that is. Who decided that? Was there some kind of vote? Anyway, the best known Ice Queen is obviously Jadis, the White Witch, from CS Lewis' The Chronicles of Narnia, and I have to say her style has always been on point. So yes, she may be evil, but she is blessed with a fabulous wardrobe.

 So my Ice Queen look was kind of an 'Ode to Jadis' in a way, cool tones everywhere with the Pièce de résistance being my frosted lashes. I've always wanted to have an excuse to splash some white on the lashes, but until now could never find one. There are other ways to get frosted lashes - e.g. applying some liquid nitrogen to them or wetting them and sitting in a walk-in freezer for 10 minutes - but they seemed too dangerous and/or cold so I went with something a little more sedate.

It was interesting though, because I went out on a Friday evening sporting this look, and a few people stopped me on the street to say how I actually looked like an Ice Queen. For me, that moment was a bit like when you're playing charades, it's the final round and you've been given a toughie yet somehow your team actually guess it to win the game. Quite satisfying.

I really, really wanted white lashes to put the cherry-on-the-top of this look, just to give it that authentic feel really but I didn't want to have to resort to the fakery of false eyelashes. Not just because they wouldn't look real, but because I'm terrible at applying them and couldn't be arsed with the effort - I'm the f**king Ice Queen, one does not simply p*ss about with fake lashes and glue. :)

So, my next thought was: 'How am I going to do it then?'

Simple, I brushed them on! I applied a coat of my Soap & Glory'Thick & Fast' mascara to gain some length, then in true Blue Peter style I rooted around the bedroom for an old mascara wand. Once I found one, I poured out a little bit of Illamasqua's Precision Ink Liner in Scribe, which is pure white, on to the wand and painted on my icicle-esque eye lashes!

As I said earlier, the lashes really were the Pièce de résistance orthe cherry-on-top, but there are a lot of other aspects that combine together to make this look work: the aqua-blue contacts make me look significantly more icy than my natural brown marbles and my pastelly lilac-white-blonde hair combo also adds to the icy effect. The make-up around the eyes intentionally makes use of 'cool' tones and Illamasqua's spine-chilling Apocalips makes for a sterling supporting actress to round off this star-studded ensemble cast.

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'No Edmond you can't have any more Turkish Delight, you greedy little fucker'

*FACE*

YSL Touche Éclat Foundation in BD50 (MAC equivelant NC37-NC40)
 NARS Powder Foundation in Barcelona 

*CHEEKS*

Illamasqua GLEAM Highlighter in 'Aurora'
Sleek Contour Kit in Medium 

*BROWS* 

Soap & Glory Brow Archey in 'Hot Chocolate'

*EYES*

 *Makeup Revolution'White Noise' all over the lid and lined upped and lower eyelid with 'Ash' from the 'Give Them Nightmares' palette 
Light blue on the inner corner and white on the brow bone from MAC Bleuluze Veluxe Pearl Fusion Shadow palette
'Bolt' from the Sleek I-Divine Ultra Matte V1 Brights palette in the crease and flicked out 
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IllamasquaPrecision Ink in 'Scribe'

*LIPS* 

Illamasqua Lipstick in Apocalips

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I'm actually quite proud of this look and the effort that went into making it all work. It's no easy task to take inspiration from life as it's happening in front of you, divert that into something you're passionate about and create something original and interesting from it. Sometimes make-up is sneered at or looked down upon, but the creative process that goes into making a new look shows just how much of an artform it really is.

Have you tried anything different, unusual or creative with your makeup lately?

The Sheer Celestial Iridescent Dress and Hello 2015!

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Happy new year folks! 

I always find it odd how we celebrate the clock striking the twelfth hour of the 365th (or 366th) day of every year, when Time is an invention all of our own. An interesting thing about time the OH told me, less than seven days a year last exactly 24 hours. The rest of the year it takes earth between 30 seconds less and 30 seconds longer to rotate on its own axis. Well now the boring stuff is over with, I must confess to getting swept up in the whirlwind of OMG NEW YEAR! Bloody Happy New Year!

I guess it gives us a way of breaking our lives down into smaller segments and lets us look back and reflect on these individual segments of time. I've been doing that since December, constantly thinking: what the fuck have I done this year?!

In all honesty though, I can be quite hard on myself when reflecting - I am my own harshest critic - but even this year I'm like: WOW, go me! Here are just a few of my own highlights from 2014, the year that's just been:

1) I went to London Fashion Week and IMATS! 

If someone had teleported back in time and told my younger self that I will be going backstage at London Fashion in a couple of years time, I'd have laughed in their face! It might not be such a big deal for those who frequent LFW on a biannual basis, however I really did appreciate the opportunity to go along, watch the models gracing the catwalks with their crazy outfits (which obvs I would totally wear) and witness the madness backstage! In fact, it was so good I went twice.

2) I self taught myself to sew and illustrate. 

It all started on a whim really. I'd wanted to learn how to sew for ages as I always found it frustrating that a lot of the stuff on the high street is less than perfect. I wanted to make my own clothes and amend things I'd bought off the shelves. I lucked out a bit when I saw a Gumtree ad for a £20 sewing machine just around the corner and since then I haven't looked back, I've sewn items from dresses to kimonos!

3) I quit my day-job! 

My Dad is now a retired entrepreneur and always wanted his kids to follow in his footsteps. I was working in a dull office-type job and on one particular day someone was given an award for 35 years of service. 35 fucking years in one job. Fuck me. It stirred in me a deep emotional hatred of the thought of working in the same boring, unstimulating, passionless job for the rest of my life. Oh, and working with a bunch of dickheads didn't help either. So I rekindled an idea I'd had back in the Summer of 2013 and went with it, quit the day-job and threw myself into my passion. I hate to be all cryptic (that's a lie - I love it!) but in 2015, you'll see what it's all about... 

4) I moved house! 

It really had to be done. Starting up a new business meant that space was at a premium in the old place. I found myself working hunched over a flat square of wood in the living room. Now we're in a bigger, warmer house with my own workspace. :)

With all that in mind, I won't shy away from saying that 2014 was tough, maybe even a rollercoaster of highs and lows, but it's those highs that drive me and keep me going. Even typing them up in this post is reinvigorating and motivates me to push harder and do more!

I do have some goals, though not exactly New Years resolutions, one being to actually launch the business. I have all sorts of dreams and plans of carving out a little niche for myself before going on to branch out into other fields but I need to keep focusing on the basics for now!

On a more personal note, I plan on putting myself first much more often than I do at present. I'm all too quick to put my needs secondary to the needs of others, and that is a good character trait, but I feel that I need to balance out being nice with being me as it does get a bit draining at times. I am a positive person, but sometimes I feel that the negativity of others can drag me down pretty quickly.

And finally, on to the outfit! This is what you might call an OOTD from the archives, that is, the photos were shot in warmer times but I never got around to posting it up to the blog at the time. Personally I think it's worthy of the blog as it's in one of my favourite colours:

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The dress is quite oversized and incredibly floaty, so floaty in fact, a strong gust of wind can make its way up through the skirt to the top. Fortunately it has a zip at the back to fasten it onto the body, ha!

It's also quite sheer and I didn't fancy going commando so I wore a longline black bodycon vest underneath. I then added a black sheer shirt on top and tied a knot at the front to cinch in the dress to counteract a bit of the floatiness of the dress! 

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Cosmo Dress from the Space Oditty Collectionby LAZY OAF
Gold Button Black Sheer Shirt - TOPSHOP (OLD)
Blue Liquid Filled Ring - Pylones 
Silver Disc Head Piece -eBay

There is just one qualm I have with this Lazy Oaf dress, and that's the fabric. It's so stiff that I find the seams can begin to come apart. It did come with a label advising to handle it carefully as it's delicate, but even a light touch can cause problems, as I found when I first tried it on. I was mortified when the seams at the sleeves came apart, and those sewing skills have came in handy a lot with this dress!

At the time my hair was fading fast from the cotton candy blue, pink and lavender I'd used previously. I decided to let it fade out as I was really liking the white-blonde, faded platinum look and I was getting a little fed up of the high maintenance required of bright coloured hair! So now I've evolved into a lilac, which fades down to a silvery-white that looks pretty epic. Not much maintenance required either so I'll be certain to blog about it later on in the year, some of yous may find it helpful!

And that's it from me! 

What were your highlights from 2014? 

Love, 

Lima 

XO


10 Reasons Why Haters Hate & How to Deal with Them

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To the haters, with love.

Now here's a topic to set your heart racing!

As the online world grows, the haters grow with it. The cyberworld we all live in has made it much easier for haters to not only exist, but also offers them a platform to vent their hatred and make an impact on the lives of their intended victims. It goes without saying that it takes far less courage to hurl insults from behind the security blanket of a screen than direct to someone's face.

We've all seen it happen, and we've probably all had it happen to us. Browsing through Instagram, Twitter, Facebook, Tumblr or even taking a peek at one of the various gossip forums out there. Hate. Real hatred for a person, totally uncalled for. Whether we like it or not, when a person chooses to post something online, they've taken a brave step. They've put themselves out there, they've put their face out there, their style, their choices, their opinions. Yet occasionally they'll receive hate in response.

There are so many potential reasons as to why someone has chosen to resort to the measures of commenting with such hatred, either anonymously or otherwise, or spreading vicious rumours behind your back or even starting a vendetta against you. Whatever the reason, I find it to be terribly, terribly sad.

Not to go all 'Buzzfeed' on you, but I've listed some of the key factors behind such hatred and some advice on how to combat it. I'm sure some of these will really strike a chord with each person that reads this, so I hope that this post proves useful, and of course I'd be really interested to hear the kinds of hatred you've had to put up with, and how you've coped.

So, in no particular order, here are the 10 main reasons for haters hating:

1. It's easier to hate someone else than to fix the issues in their own life

There are haters out there who just don't want to or can't face up to their own issues or their own deficiencies. Let's face it, confronting something that's going wrong in life isn't easy. It takes bravery and courage to look at your issues in the eye and beat them, bravery that haters just don't possess. The easy way out is to focus their energies on hating someone else, to give them a temporary sense of well-being.

2. The Curse of the Green Eyed Monster

Quite an obvious one really! You've been on the receiving end of some hate and your friends have all told you it's just jealousy on their part. You've nodded and agreed, but deep within it doesn't really help much, they're your friends, they have to say that. NO! It's true. Haters are generally jealous creatures. They can't stand that you have something they want, and that ranges from being able to afford that dress they've been lusting after, or a talent you have.

They hate that you have what they desire and for that reason they'll do whatever it takes to 'balance things out'. Whatever you do, don't let them bring you down to their level. Because the fact of the matter is, you're awesome!

3. Because They Can't Be You
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These haters love everything about you. They want to be you. But they can't. There are 7 billion people on the face of the earth, each one of us an individual, but these haters don't treat themselves as such. They want to go by your mottos, live by your rules, do the things that you do, wear the clothes that you wear, even something as minuscule as wearing the same perfumes as you, they just want to live your life!

But they will never admit this to themselves, never mind to anyone else. And you know, there's no problem with people trying to emulate parts of you, but the problems arise when that person tries to be you and inevitably begins to fail at it. Their failure provokes self-loathing, and the best way for them to cover that up is to direct hatred at the person they so desperately tried to be. Don't sweat it though, you're clearly so awesome that they've chosen to devote their time and energy towards emulating you, but they failed!

4. Too Much Time On Their Hands

Imagine having so much free time in your life that you can spend hours at a time looking at everything someone else has posted, analysing it, scrutinising their every word, photo and comment looking for that one little chink in their armour. Yes. These are the haters with not much going on in their own lives, so they direct their anger at those who have an awful lot going on. You're obviously a very special person, so special that the haters spend their free time on you - if only they could communicate their admiration in a better way!

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Hater: "Who the fuck does she think she is? She looks like she's wearing a polar bear"

5. They Think You Are Undeserving Of Your Success

This kind of ties in with jealousy, but goes a little deeper. This hater is someone who has the same niche as you, or the same goals as you but it didn't quite come off for them as good as it did for you. They probably put in a bit of effort, but not as much as you. And in their mind's eye, they think that you didn't put in as much hard graft as they did, because you make it look so damned easy! The fact you make it look so effortless just drives them crazy. How dare you?!  

6. Former Friends

Ah yes. The revenge of the jilted ex. You two were good friends at one stage, but had a fall out and they just can't get over the past. The fall-out circles around in their brain with every passing moment, so they will try to make you fall, to get their revenge. Rumours will be spread about you, others will be recruited to join in on the vendetta, they will validate their hatred of you by believing the lies and untruths they themselves have fabricated. 

They are likely to have been the 'friend' that couldn't sit down and hold an adult to adult conversation with you about anything real. They're the type that will have twisted your words to suit their own agenda, to go behind your back and play the victim.

Truly pathetic, you know you're better than that so don't resort to their level. The truth will always prevail. Fact.

7. Emptiness in Their own Lives

There's something missing in the life of this hater, and it could be anything. It could be a lack of talent, it could be a skill they cannot master, it might be an object they cannot purchase or even a loneliness they cannot deal with. How to fill this gaping hole? Effort and application? No! Setting small goals to hit? No! Putting themselves out there? No!

Obviously, the best way to fill that gap is to make a scapegoat out of you. Just think though, you're performing a public service - your very existence makes someone feel better, sort of, for a while.

8. They Can't Have You

We're entering classic hater territory here, the most abusive of them all. I saw a case of this on Twitter only a couple of days ago - A woman posted a message she received from a male, containing awful, vile insults aimed at her. Why? Because she didn't reply back to his advances.

The online world makes it easy for people to reach out to those they wish they could be with in real life. If you ignore or reject them, the hate comes in thick and fast and is often sickening. There is some good news, you're not alone so don't buckle. Shame them by sharing the abuse using the #EverydaySexism hashtag - you'll find a huge support network you thought never existed. If the abuse is so bad you genuinely fear for your safety, report it to the police.

Above all, just remember - It's not you, it's them. You are not an object created to please others, you are your own person with the right to make your own choices.

9. They're Just Negative

You could say this for all types of hater, but this hater is simply overcome with negativity. On the face of it, they appear to be nice, they appear to be happy and excitable yet it's all a facade. Deep down they are unhappy bunnies, wallowing in their own self-pity. Temporary relief comes in the form of pulling others down into their little spiral of negativity. Their logic sees that it's easier to drag people down to their level than it is to aspire to better themselves.

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10. They Fear What They Don't Understand

Something else I've seen a lot of. Whenever I go out with my gays, they receive the occasional homophobic comment, however online it can often be worse. Instead of that occasional passing comment, it can be come an entire campaign of hatred from groups of people. And this doesn't just apply to sexual preference either, it can apply to anyone who is 'different' to the hater. The hater is afraid of 'different', their small mind cannot cope with it so they attack you. Or of course, they could well be overcompensating for something...

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When I first created this blog, I didn't really know what to expect. I didn't expect all that many people to read it and it just grew month on month. It was amazing that people actually took interest in what I had to say, and for me that was empowering. That I, little ol' me, could make a difference.

Of course, as the blog grew, the hate began to come in too. I don't know where it all came from, or why, but I'm certain that some of it is because I'm a Desi girl that goes against the norm - I have a white partner, I dress however the hell I want, I colour my hair, I've pierced my lips and I have freedom. I am incredibly appreciative of the opportunities I've had in this respect, but I also appreciate that not everyone from my background has had this.

From time to time I'd get hate from the Mufti-wannabes, saying how I'm going to hell, stopping their cars and hurling abuse in the street. And from other Desi Girls, judging me solely on my appearance. I mean, can you get any more hypocritical? One guy actually asked me in Urdu : "What happened, did all the Asian men die?" - No mate, they're all like you!

No matter what we do, there will always be people who are unhappy in their own lives, and within that there will be people who try hard to improve themselves and their situations, but also there will be those who do not have the true courage, bravery or will to make that effort. These are the people who become haters, these are the people who will abuse you, spread lies about you, try to hurt you, drag you down and ruin you. But they will fail on two counts. Firstly, you will always be a step ahead of them, as they can only ever respond to what you do, and secondly, their attempts will only ever satsify them temporarily. They will still be unhappy, no matter how many people they hate on.

To deal with the haters, you just have to be yourself. Don't change your style or way of life on their account. You are a special person, with talents, abilities, work ethic and people who care about you. Keep plugging away, keep doing the best you can do. 

The ultimate way to defeat your haters is to be successful. That is what they hate the most.


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Love, 

Lima 

XO


Tigi Copyright Colour True Light Bleach Review - Safe DIY Hair Bleach

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We've all witnessed the explosion of hair colour of late, it seems everyone's getting in on the act! For us Mermaidians and Unicornians with coloured hair, we can all relate - bleach is a bastard. Quite frankly, I always get butterflies in the stomach ahead of bleaching. No matter how experienced you may be, there's always acknowledgment that you are tampering with one of your defining features.

 Bleaching can be a messy process, it can ruin clothes (even ones you aren't wearing!), it can get all over your hands, the harsh chemical aroma burns the nostrils and can be dizzying, it gets on to the wrong bit of your hair, it will inevitably cause damage and breakage to the hair and the instructions can be a bit like a manual for a rocket ship.

So why do we put ourselves through it? Well the results are worth it, salons charge extortionate amounts and are quite selective with their customers, if your hair fails the 'strand test' you've got no chance and there seems to be more choice than ever before on what products you can use at home.

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Choice can pose problems though. There is just so much conflicting information out there with regards to colouring your hair, I've even heard people say that picking the right colour/tone is the most critical part - wrong!! The bleaching is the most dangerous part of the process, and by definition, the most critical part. Get this wrong, and you can at best kiss goodbye to that colour you want, and at worst kiss goodbye to respectable looking hair for a while.

But please, don't let me put you off. You just have to respect the bleaching process, pick the right product for you and wash it off at the right time - it's much simpler than made out to be.

In terms of products, I've been through almost everything you can buy in the likes of Boots and Superdrug as well as several different salon brands too. I've tried it all from the Jerome Russell range through L'Oreal's Platine Precision to Wella's Blondor. Up until lately, I was a big fan of the latter. It left me with the desired pale yellow-blonde tone I was looking for, that I'd then neutralise or tone. The problem is it was really quite damaging to my hair. For so long I just accepted that as part of the bleaching process and went with it. But on one fateful night, the hair junkie within took control and carried out some internet-based research.

That's when I first came across Tigi's Copyright Colour True Light Bleach.

Copyright Colour True Light Bleach

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I may have built that up as some kind of an epic moment in my life, and actually yeah. It really was! I had a good read about it on the net, then purchased the Bleaching Powder and matching Peroxide, or 'Activator' in 20 Vol / 6%. Usually I go for 30 Vol / 9% to get my Indian black hair down to that platinum colour I desire, however Tigi don't recommend using anything more than 6% on the scalp, so I bowed to their superior wisdom on this one, as the only time I use bleach is usually on the roots for regrowth.

There is a bit of a choice when it comes to Tigi's Bleaching Powder too. You can either go for the standard True Light White - named so as the powder is... white - or for True Light. True Light is an amazing concept, one that must leave other companies kicking themselves for not thinking of it sooner. It's violet-based, meaning toning becomes easier (more on that later!). I went for the violet option.

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The reason it's such a good idea, is that bleaching will always lift the colour out of your hair, leaving behind yellowy, brassy tones that look pretty dreadful and actually can cause a bit of panic if it's your first time! With any standard bleach, you need to tone your hair afterwards to get rid of those yellow colours. As True Light is violet-based, you get a much cleaner lift meaning the yellow colours are already partially toned, so it won't look quite so horrifying but will still require a bit of toning afterwards.

 The Oily Myth

Just to clear up a little bit of a myth here too, I always saturate my hair before bleaching with Coconut Oil."OIL?!?!"I hear you say. Yes, Oil. The Coconut oil replicates the hair's natural oils and can offer some protection to the nasty chemicals you're about to apply to your hair, and oddly enough it actually accelerates the process!I apply the Coconut Oil the night before I bleach, allowing the oil to penetrate deep into the hair and offer as much protection as possible.

The Bleaching Process

Moving back on to the actual product itself, there are a few things that set this apart from other bleaches out there. Firstly, a minor point really, the powder is very finely milled and is much easier to mix. I noticed this within seconds, there just aren't any clumpy bits to get rid of in your bleach. Also whilst mixing, you tend to be smacked around the face with the powerful chemical bleach smell. Tigi's is actually quite floral and pleasant. It's the small things! :) 

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 So, when you've combined the two together and mixed it all up, applied to the desired sections of hair, Tigi state to leave it on for around 40 minutes, or until the desired tone is achieved. As I only purchased 6%, it lifts slowly so I tend to leave it on for 90 minutes. But I must stress, that is because I want my hair to be as close to platinum blonde as possible. Just a pro tip: leaving bleach on for longer than 40 minutes will require constant check-ups on the colour, but also it will dry up so use a shower cap to keep the moisture locked in.

After 90 minutes or so, my hair looks a very pale blonde, just what I'm looking for so I rinse it off and blow-dry. Once dried, it is plainly obvious that Tigi's bleach far exceeds any other bleach I've ever used. Not only does it look like a much cleaner, lighter blonde with less yellowy/brassy tones, the condition of the hair has deteriorated far less than other bleaches. It actually feels quite soft and silky and there isn't much breakage, if any - most unusual!

As I'm a complete perfectionist, I still have to go for some toning to get rid of all traces of yellow. This is particularly important if you're aiming for a light, pastel colour like mine, the dye won't take too kindly to any patches of canary yellow and you'll be left with an odd look. However, if you're going bright or bold, it can actually be a good idea to leave the yellow tones (depending on the colour) in there to give more dimension to the finished colour.

Conclusions

In conclusion, bleaching is and will always be damaging to the hair. It's an inescapable fact. However that doesn't mean we should settle for sub-standard bleaches in any way, shape or form. For me Tigi have raised the bar. I never expected a bleach to leave my hair looking so close to the desired tone without having to make severe compromises in the form of weak, straw-like, broken hair. To then top all of that off by actually making my hair feel soft and smooth after bleaching is so good it's ridiculous. Ridiculous I tell thee! Of all the bleaches I have tried, this is the only one I'd recommend, and for any future bleaches I try, they will be judged against this. Just fantastic.

Before, I could only ever use 9% (30 Vol) for my roots as the other 6% peroxides on the market could never lighten my hair to the desired tone. Now though, with Tigi's Copyright Colour, I can achieve the similar results but with lower strength peroxide and therefore less damage. 
 
Nothing is ever completely perfect though, and Copyright Colour is no exception. If you want all this bleachy goodness, it will set you back a pretty penny: £11.49 for the True Light Powder and £15.94 for the Activator. Initially it does feel a bit expensive, but then you see the actual amount of product you get for that, 500 grams of bleaching powder and a litre for the activator, it's clear it will last. Also, the sheer quality of this bleach makes it worth every single penny. Not only does the hair feel silky and smooth in the immediate aftermath of bleaching, it continues to feel that way for months afterwards - so long as you treat your hair kindly, there's no gradual deterioration here!


You can purchase 500 grams of Tigi True Light Lightener HERE and a litre of the ActivatorHERE


LIFESTYLE | Technology vs You: Striking a Balance

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You'll have probably already seen 'Look Up' the spoken word film from Gary Turk, it was uploaded to YouTube in April 2014 and has amassed an incredible 49 Million views at the time of writing. We always hear of people saying a video has gone 'Viral', but sticking to the terminology, this video has spread quicker than Resident Evil's T-Virus - it's everywhere!

Unlike the T-Virus though, this film doesn't spread death or make people turn in to brain-eating zombies, it spreads a quite uplifting message of hope and potential. The film is split in to two parts, the first spelling out where technology has led us to today, and the second offering us a window into a future not too dissimilar to the past of our childhoods.

I've watched this many times over now, and even though it's under 5 minutes long, each time I feel like I learn something new about myself or about society in general. There are a few key themes from the film that I'd like to call out and talk about, as they really do affect us all and if left unchecked we could be heading down a dark, dark path.

Technology

Technology is wonderful, we can do things now that were almost unimaginable just 10 short years ago. I remember my first MP3 player could just about hold an album, but now they can hold tens of thousands of albums! Technology has the potential to enhance our lives, make them simpler, easier and get things done quicker. It should be seen as a tool to allow ourselves more time to spend on meaningful things, but instead it seems to be something we build our lives around.

It's as if we've created a strange virtual world within the physical world, a world that's more real than a virtual world, but less real than the real world (this definitely made sense in my head). We exist in the physical world, but live in this virtual world. We take photos of things we can touch, but share it in the virtual world via our Twitter, Instagram or Facebook followers or friends for them to like, comment on or just ignore.

Technology and Social Media has given us new ways of reaching out to people with similar interests all over the globe, and this is fantastic - it's quite an exhilarating feeling to look on my Google Analytics stats to see that people from over 200 countries have read my blog. But I'm worried that we may take things a little too far and eventually just forget to make contact with the people directly around us, or forget how to.

I was on the tube sat with my partner last Valentine's day, and saw a guy with a huge teddy bear and balloon, obviously making his way to a nice romantic date. In my own mind I saw this as one of those social situations where conversations can be struck up from out of nowhere, the art of conversation! But no, I tried to engage the guy and he was just not interested, giving me abrupt one word answers. I think to myself, if that same guy had put up a photo on Twitter, 100s of people would 'retweet', 'favourite' and even reply - so why was it seen as so odd for that to happen in real life?

Conversely, one of my friends travels around the world playing competitive chess - quite a fulfilling pastime really where he can travel to different countries, meet new people face to face and share in their love of chess! But if you were to look on his Social Media accounts, there isn't even a mention of this part of his life whatsoever, in fact there aren't all that many updates at all. Does this mean he lives a boring life with not a lot going on? I mean, he has very few photos for me to like, or videos for me to comment on, or statuses for me to reply to. This nicely brings me on the next key theme:

Comparison

This certainly isn't a new phenomenon, we even have an old fashioned catchphrase or idiom to describe this exact scenario- "Keeping Up with the Joneses" - where we compare ourselves to our neighbours as a way of recognising our social class and status. Technology has exacerbated this in a few ways: we now compete with each other to stay up-to-date with technology and we can now reach a greater number of people to compare ourselves with.

The fast moving nature of technology means that one can be 'behind the times' pretty quickly, as mentioned before, we've moved from 64MB MP3 players to 64GB within just over a decade! We're also bombarded with adverts promoting the latest tech, so there's nowhere to hide in that sense. But technology really is only a small area for comparison, as it has opened up a window to a whole new universe of comparison.

Like I said earlier, we can reach out to people all over the globe much easier than ever before now to talk about common interests, and whilst this most certainly has an awful lot of positives, it also comes with a few drawbacks too. It also means that instead of just comparing ourselves to our neighbours or relatives, we can now compare ourselves to people who we may not have ordinarily came across in the real world. We can see the lives of others a lot more now, and the 'Look Up' film touches on this slightly, in that the lives of others we see are more than likely highly edited.

If you thought that photoshopping the appearance of models in a magazine was bad (it is!), then how bad is it that on the Internet we are all essentially Photoshopping our lives? As the owner of your social media accounts, you can post whatever you want, and more importantly leave out whatever you want. Nothing wrong with that at all, it's just unfortunate that some unscrupulous souls quite deliberately make a living out of the illusion they've created online. They present themselves as having perfect lives where everything is awesome, and put themselves out there as lifestyle gurus. They make, whether intentional or not, other Internet people aspire to the impossible - the perfect life. This is the danger of comparison in the social media age - it's virulent and you don't actually know what or who you're comparing yourself to.

Money

This is what modern life all comes down to. Money. Without it, you can't buy the technology you need, you can't feed your social media profiles with daily updates of interesting and exciting and unique things you've done or seen. Similar to technology, Money is something that can really enhance our lives. With it, we can buy better things, open doors that always seemed shut and do things that never seemed possible.

But in a similar way to technology, we've built our lives around money, instead of using it to help build our lives. Society today is a race, a competition, to get a much money as possible. There are so many stats on this that it's unreal, but only this week some stuff came out showing that the richest 1% in the world will soon be worth more than the remaining 99%. That's scandalous, and it seems to be the pattern, accumulating money for the sake of it.

For the rest of us though, money needn't be the be-all-and-end-all that it appears to be (particularly if you're comparing yourself a lot to Internet people!) Some of my best memories have involved things that didn't cost a penny and didn't really involve technology. I used to earn a pretty decent living before I took the bold step of quitting it all, I'd buy designer clothes, clothes from the high street, shoes, handbags and cosmetics, but it didn't make me feel any happier - it just made me question what I'd had to sacrifice to get these things, mostly my own time.

That's not to say you can't or shouldn't have fun with money, it just means we should all evaluate the role that money plays in our lives, and whether we control it, or if it controls us.

Experiences

In my opinion, life is all about experiences. It's about the things you do, the people you meet, the friends you make, the places you go and the fun you have. I'm certain that technology and money are both enablers to experiences, I mean I booked all of my travels on the Internet after searching around for the best places to go to, what each place has to offer and how to get the best deal. Oh, and money paid for it all too.

It is all to easy to allow technology to overshadow our experiences though - from everyday examples such as taking photos of your food for instagram before you eat it, to putting on makeup for the benefit of your blog, to the less everyday of missing out on the true atmosphere of a foreign city because you're checking your twitter feed as you walk around. I guess it's all about striking a balance, you want to have mementos to remind you of the great experiences you had, but you don't want to spend all of your time documenting them, because then you'll be living life in the third person. You'll look back at the photos or twitter feeds or tumblr posts and think: "Was that really me?" And I don't think that's a good thing.

I remember as a kid there were riots in my home town, between the Indian and Pakistani communities, I'm not sure exactly why, but I was only around 7 or 8, and I used to love going out to play, I had a really vivid imagination, the adventurer's spirit, so being indoors felt like I was being shackled. During the riots I escaped from the house and went to the park to play, despite the sirens wailing amid the backdrop of violence!

It truly is those random experiences that one cannot plan or predict that really make our lives interesting, unique and exciting - from having a race with a friend and tripping over a flower (only me) through spontaneously walking in to an Art gallery in passing and accidentally bumping in to your future partner, to meeting a lifelong friend for the first, and the last, time, to seeing the sunset in a foreign land and chatting with strangers about nothing in particular.

To conclude, Technology and Money can be great, if a balance can be struck between them and life. If you are using them to actually make your everyday life better, to get out there and do amazing things  then great, they are serving you. If however you find the balance tips towards you serving them, life will not be quite so great. You could end up being the person that lives on their phone, tablet or laptop constantly tweeting, instagramming, whatsapping or typing away. Don't let yourself be that person, continuously evaluate life, live for the moment, avoid putting up content for the benefit of others as you'll be building an unsustainable Internet Persona and above all, because you don't want your technology to take you away from life.

And in case you're wondering what the hell I'm on about, here's the video:

Lima 
xo

FASHION | White On White with Gemma Goldstone

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Hello hello!

I hope you’ve all had a great first month of 2015 and haven’t broken too many of your New Year’s Resolutions already! Speaking of firsts though, this is the first OOTD on Fashionicide of 2015! It's been quite a while since I've done an OOTD so I'd almost forgotten how to behave in front of the camera.

 I’ve also had a little bit of a mini-revamp on the blog this month, changing the look and feel of the site to match my current tastes – so we’re talking pastels, sleek, retro-futurist and easy on the eyes!

The fur bomber in the photo is an absolute beaut isn’t she? Still photographs just don’t do it justice at all, it’s almost as if it’s alive, particularly when the wind brushes past and you can see the individual strands flowing! I won it on Christmas Eve as part of a competition from White Dirt, a retailer specialising in Independent Fashion labels based in Colchester, and I have to say it certainly made my Christmas! 

I’ve never really been a huge fan of white in the past, but this bomber has really turned me on to the benefits of white. For those of us with darker skin, it can really highlight and accentuate our beautiful skin tones – it also gives space for my new hair colour to shine through and take centre stage.


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White Bodycon Dress - Dolls Paris via ARK
Silver Capped Lilac Court Shoes - Reworked Vintage 

I’ve been stalking the White Dirt website for quite some time now as I am tending to verge towards independent labels lately, I’m not sure what the general feeling is, but I can’t help but think the High Street has started to get a little boring again of late, and for Independents, there are much less rules and more room for creativity with their designs. 

One thing I was pleasantly surprised by is just how luxurious the bomber actually feels, it’s so decadent! I’ve had fur coats in the past from the likes of Topshop and Miss Selfridge that didn’t ever feel that way, whereas this one feels like the faux-fur equivalent of Champagne & Caviar and doesn’t give that itchy feeling.

Lima 
xo 

Top 10 Haircare Products for Bleached / Pastel / Mermaid / Unicorn hair!

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A few weeks back I posted a review of Tigi's Copyright Colour bleach, revealing just how incredible a job it does of bleaching the hair yet still leaving it in good condition. The thing is, you can never be complacent with hair, particularly when it has been bleached. So I feel it only right that I look after my lovely readers by treating them to a mammoth post on haircare!

My fellow pastel princesses, mermaidians, unicornians and bleached bombshells will understand the struggle and the pain of bleached, damaged, brittle hair! The photos may look all glam, and beautiful and effortless, but ladies: THE STRUGGLE IS REAL. 

So no matter how pretty coloured hair looks, particularly brights, pastels & blondes, I can tell you now, the bleaching process will more than likely leave you noticing your hair feels parched, split ends will appear all over and sometimes your hair will even snap right off (though Tigi has reduced all three). 

One of the key reasons people are put off from bleaching their hair is the maintenance, they'll have to do the roots every 6 weeks (or when they can be arsed, like me) and retouch the colour every week etc. Whilst those can both be irritants, the real maintenance comes with caring for your luscious locks - however it needn't be such a laborious chore. There are some hair-rescuing, life-saving products out there that make it so much easier.

I've gone from turquoise ombre, to full on ocean-blue turquoise hair to cotton candy, to white blonde and now to lilac. And as you can imagine, all that change can take it's toll on the hair. However, I am pleased to report that my hair is in pretty decent condition!

The hair junkie in me has tried out a zillion and one products out there and it was difficult to pick just 10 products out of the 395828593 I love. Whether your hair is mushy, severely damaged or extremely dry there's something for everyone in my top 10 picks! 

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Macadamia Natural Oil Flawless

Cast your mind back to the 90s for a second and the good old 2 in 1s by Wash and Go. Now if you imagine it was upgraded for the 21st century, you won't be a million miles away from this great product. It's a cleansing conditioner, and it does pretty much what it sounds like it should: it cleanses and conditions your hair - at the same time! You'll need just 1 or 2 pumps of this thick foamy stuff, emulsify this in the palms of your hands and apply to your parched locks whilst in the shower.

To help it spread all over my hair, I tend to apply a tiny bit of water to the hair to loosen it up which makes it a lot easier to get full coverage and massage into the scalp. Basically, just apply like a normal shampoo but leave it in the hair for 5 minutes. Just note that it won't lather in the hair, it feels pretty much like a conditioner but I always look forward to using it. 

Once the five minutes are up, rinse it all out and you'll be pleasantly surprised at how easily your hair detangles by just using your digits!

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Not only does this product take good care of your hair, it also saves you a lot of time. You won't need to go through your conditioning ritual after washing (as it's already done!) and your hair will feel silky smooth after. WIN!

Nothing's perfect though, and the only downside is that I've found I can't use it every time I wash, the reason being it tends to build up on your hair over time. For that reason I recommend using this every other wash.

It's a must-have for those of you with pastel or vivdly bright hair as it doesn't fade out the dye.

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Clairol Shimer Lights Shampoo and Conditioner

Shimmer Lights is a violet based toning shampoo and conditioner, that I have to say is a frightening shade of deep purple, but don't let that fool you - it won't dye your hair, I promise! If you have blonde, white or silvery hair, this stuff is for you. These hair tones are susceptible to that horrible brassiness that can over time lead to Tweetie Pie style canary yellow.

When my hair was a white-blonde, I'd use this once a week, leaving the shampoo and/or conditioner in for 5 minutes and rinse. After that you'll find the brassiness has vanished and the hair looks generally brighter. The violet tones attack the yellows in your hair, leaving behind a wonderful ashy tint.

My only qualm is that the shampoo does leave the hair feeling a little dry and if I'm honest, the conditioner isn't exactly the best at conditioning either. But I'm only really interested in using this for the affect it has on the hair colour, so I tend to mix in another conditioner to get the sleek hair I so crave. If I'm being really honest, I'd also have to call out just how heavily perfumed it is, it can get a little overwhelming.

My tip with this stuff is to use the conditioner shortly after bleaching, particularly if your hair is looking a bit yellowy. It will really sort out that tone for you. If you're keen to try this out, I'd recommend just buying either one of them as you don't need both to get the benefits. Personally I've had my eye on Fudge's Clean Blonde Shampoo & Conditioner for ages now, so once these are finished, I'll be giving it a shot!

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Redken All Soft Heavy Cream 

Oh lawwwwwrd! I'm gonna keep banging on about this, but I need to ram home the message here: the after effects of bleach can leave the hair feeling rather brittle. But fear not - Redken's Heavy Cream is your hair's best friend. It picks it up when it's at its lowest, smothers it in creamy love and transforms it from straw to super soft after just one use.

The product itself is a thick, heavy conditioner that you apply to hair after shampooing. You'll only need a small amount, as it contains Argan Oil applying too much can leave hair looking limp. If you have fine hair, you don't want that to happen! I spread this through the hair and leave on for around 15 minutes.

My hair suffers a lot in winter due to the effects of moving between the cold, icy outdoors and the nice, toasty indoors, and it begins to feel a bit like a haystack. So when I've got some time to myself, I'll go out on a limb and leave this on for a good couple of hours. I can't stress just how good Heavy Cream is, it completely transformed my hair! It used to sadden me how much I'd have to struggle to get a comb through my hair, but after the first use it was like a hot knife through butter.

Whilst this is definitely your hair's best friend, it's not likely to be your debit card's. At £21.95 for a 150ml tub, it ain't cheap but it's worth every last penny - plus Lookfantastic have offers on this from time to time at £15.90. My opinion? GET. IT. NOW.
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Mark Hill Colour Hydration Bomb Intensive Treatment 

Mark Hill's range is seriously underrated, but this mask is perfectly named. It doesn't just inject moisture into your hair, it goes off like a bomb on it! I stumbled upon this in Boots whilst on the hunt for some increasingly elusive protein-free treatments, and I honestly didn't expect to have anything to write home about. Sorry Mark, I of little faith!

As for protein, I don't have a problem with it as such, but overuse of protein filled products can overload the hair and cause severe breakage. What's worse, is you probably wouldn't ever suspect it's your protein-based products causing it and you'll be mystified! Given protein seems to be in almost everything, it's crucial to get a balance between protein and moisture to keep the hair in tip-top condition. Mark will help with that!

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I found Mark Hill's Intensive Treatment on the bottom shelf in the haircare aisle, and took a quick look at the ingredients. I found that it was aimed only at dry hair, not the whole 'dry/damaged' malarkey which would usually be crammed with protein - this is just pure moisture.

The formula is reassuringly thick and smooth, giving the feeling that it's really going to slather quite nicely over your hair and make a difference. I'll apply to the hair after shampooing, leave on for 5 minutes, and voila!

Not only does it feel like it's going to do something, it actually follows through and delivers, my hair always feels super-hydrated afterwards and detangles like a dream. Give it a quick blow-dry, and damn - you've got yourself smooth, shiny hair! Mark also says this can be used as a conditioning mask to be left on overnight, and he's the expert so I often take him up on that advice when my hair feels particularly dehydrated.

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Herbal Essences Hello Hydration Moisture and Shine Conditioner 

Yes. That's right, Herbal Essences. But don't laugh, I adore this serum-infused conditioner with its gorgeous coconut aroma - but I've not quite reached the heights of the adverts yet, if you know what I mean ;)

I'll use this as a little cheat after rinsing out one of my various hair treatments, as it feels like it seals the treatment in nicely, adding that much needed slip to my hair.
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Redken Anti-Snap Leave-In Treatment

Redken's Anti-Snap Leave-In Treatment is a protein-based product and my god. I LOVE IT. It's so good, that despite how much I heart the Aphogee 2 Step Treatment, I've moved away from it completely now. As mentioned in the post, Aphogee works a treat, but takes too long to dry, and time is of the essence!

Fortunately I came across this though. It's a fluid-like formula, that you apply to damp hair and leave-in. I probably use it once a week due to the protein content and it doesn't really moisturise as such, but does leave my hair feeling stronger and gives some much needed elasticity.

As a result of using this, in conjunction with Tigi's True Light bleach, breakage in my hair has reduced quite significantly, and I'm seeing less and less split ends to. If you're a fan of Aphogee's 2 Step Protein Treatment, but aren't a fan of waiting around for ages, Redken's Anti-Snap was made for you!
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Kerastase Resistance Ciment Therminique - Vita-Ciment Topseal

So you go to all the effort of bleaching your hair and colouring it a pretty pastel shade or a fierce Nicky Minaj blonde and all you keep hearing and seeing is 'Don't use heat on bleached/coloured hair'. F**K THAT! Rules, common knowledge and popular opinion are all there to be broken or challenged and Kerastase's Ciment Therminique is on your side!

It's a leave-in milk that actually requires heat in order to work! I use this in rotation with Redken's Anti-Snap Leave-In, but particularly if I'm going to be blowdrying, straightening or curling my hair. After use my hair always feels super sleek, glossy and swishy - remember the old Pantene adverts? That's what it feels like!  
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On the other hand, this does absolutely f**k all for hair when not using heat. Which I'm hoping you'd gathered by now!
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Creme of Nature Argan Oil Treatment  

I came across this on one of those rare occasions where a sales assistant actually gave me some good advice. It was in the new-ish Paul's Hair World in Manchester's Arndale centre, after their other store was gutted by fire. The assistant made a compelling argument, and for £7 I thought 'Why not?' and snapped it up.

Boy, was I in for a treat! This, my dear friends, is a dupe for the famous Macadamia Heating oil which I remained fiercely loyal to for so many years. It has quite a thick texture, and I apply sparingly on damp hair and blow-dry. This absorbs really well into the hair, and after the blow-out I'm left with the feeling that my hair has been nourished. On top of that, I found that the split ends don't look quite so noticeable.

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L'Oreal Ever Riche Oil Precieux 

The Ever Riche Oil Precieux is a spray on hair oil from L'Oreal's Sulphate and Parabens-free range. The bottle always reminds me of 'Soul Glo' from Coming to America (awesome film!), but fortunately the product within is of far superior quality!

It's perfection for those of us with fine hair as it's quite lightweight and is very forgiving if you're feeling spray-happy and go waaaay overboard. This stuff won't weigh your hair down and won't make it look greasy either, two unexpected properties from an oil! I use this for blow-drying quite often, and find that my hair feels airy and volumised. Plus, as L'Oreal say, it gives my hair the 'Cashmere Touch'.

Also if I'm deep conditioning, I may spray a few pumps out into the palms of my hands and mix in with the conditioner. I'm not sure if there are any real benefits to that though, but my hair does feel even better afterwards!

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Macadamia Natural Oil Nourishing Leave-In Cream

Last but not least, we have Macadamia Natural Oil'd Nourishing Leave-In Cream. It's a really thick,  conditioning cream with an oily feel to it that at first sight actually made me a little bit wary of applying it to the hair. I feared it may leave my hair looking limp, but I went ahead anyway and was pleasantly surprised. In my opinion this stuff works best if you're going to leave your hair natural for a couple of days without any interference from anything else.

All it takes is two pumps applied all over damp hair and just allow it to dry naturally. Once it is dry, you'll notice that it's added body and texture, leaving your hair feeling nourished, moisturised, a whole lot thicker and it looks lustrous. Perfect!

And there you have it!

That was my Top 10 Haircare Products for Bleached, Pastel, Mermaid and/or Unicorn hair - it was really difficult to pick, because there are so many great products out there. These 10 though are the ones that have had the biggest impact on the condition of my hair, and I'd highly recommend them. I hope you've found this post useful and enjoyed reading it, I'm just glad to be getting back into the swing of blogging again!

Just to clarify though, I don't use all of these products at the same time! I tend to rotate around a bit to make sure my hair gets a balanced diet of protein and moisture, these are the key to keeping bleached hair healthy and as is the case with alcohol, make sure you enjoy these products in moderation!

If you have any haircare secrets or products that really do the trick, share the love!

 Lima 

xo 

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